“See, I lay in Zion a stone that causes men to stumble and a rock that makes them fall, and the one who trusts in Him will never be put to shame.” Romans 9:33
What exactly is shame? Shame manifests itself in a wide variety of forms, which can include feelings of low self-esteem, feeling worthless, unlovable, unredeemable, defenseless, stupid, rejected and defeated, to name just a few. It is often the critical inner voice that repeats words that were spoken to us by our parents, relatives, teachers and peers while we were growing up. It has been my personal experience that most people struggle with shame to one degree or another and find it difficult to accept God’s unconditional love for them. They may know in their mind’s that He loves them, but their hearts find it difficult to truly believe it. If the scripture says that those who have placed their trust in Jesus Christ will never be put to shame, then why are so many Christians still walking around with a mantle of shame? Because deep in their hearts they have not placed their trust in Him!
Before the Fall, Adam and Eve walked in the garden of Eden “naked and unashamed”. It was not until they had sinned that their shame drove them to cover themselves with fig leaves and hide from the Lord their God. Jesus took that shame, the shame of our sins, our guilt, our unworthiness, and all the other adjectives that describe the state of having shame, upon Himself when He was on the Cross and although He despised the shame (Hebrews 12:2) He endured the cross for the “joy that was set before Him”. Have you ever wondered what “joy” He could be talking about? The whole point of the cross was that Jesus wanted to restore His relationship with Mankind so that we could once again walk with Him, naked and unashamed, metaphorically speaking. He wants us to know Him and trust Him so much that even when we sin, as we all do, we can come to Him and repent, and not be ashamed. He doesn’t want us to hide from Him anymore. He wants to restore that intimacy that can only be there when there is no shame in a relationship.
If you don’t have that kind of intimacy with Him, that you feel naked and unashamed before Him, no matter what you do or have done, then you are trusting in your own righteousness, and not His. You must come to the end of your own strength, your need to be in control, and allow Him to completely restore you. If you confess, not in your mind, but in your heart, your sinfulness, and accept His forgiveness, then He will give you a new heart and a new spirit and you can experience victory over sin. This state of being restored to Him is what brings Him joy and that is the reason why the enemy wants us to continue to be ashamed. When you are naked and unashamed before Him, that joy will not only be His, but also yours.
What exactly is shame? Shame manifests itself in a wide variety of forms, which can include feelings of low self-esteem, feeling worthless, unlovable, unredeemable, defenseless, stupid, rejected and defeated, to name just a few. It is often the critical inner voice that repeats words that were spoken to us by our parents, relatives, teachers and peers while we were growing up. It has been my personal experience that most people struggle with shame to one degree or another and find it difficult to accept God’s unconditional love for them. They may know in their mind’s that He loves them, but their hearts find it difficult to truly believe it. If the scripture says that those who have placed their trust in Jesus Christ will never be put to shame, then why are so many Christians still walking around with a mantle of shame? Because deep in their hearts they have not placed their trust in Him!
Before the Fall, Adam and Eve walked in the garden of Eden “naked and unashamed”. It was not until they had sinned that their shame drove them to cover themselves with fig leaves and hide from the Lord their God. Jesus took that shame, the shame of our sins, our guilt, our unworthiness, and all the other adjectives that describe the state of having shame, upon Himself when He was on the Cross and although He despised the shame (Hebrews 12:2) He endured the cross for the “joy that was set before Him”. Have you ever wondered what “joy” He could be talking about? The whole point of the cross was that Jesus wanted to restore His relationship with Mankind so that we could once again walk with Him, naked and unashamed, metaphorically speaking. He wants us to know Him and trust Him so much that even when we sin, as we all do, we can come to Him and repent, and not be ashamed. He doesn’t want us to hide from Him anymore. He wants to restore that intimacy that can only be there when there is no shame in a relationship.
If you don’t have that kind of intimacy with Him, that you feel naked and unashamed before Him, no matter what you do or have done, then you are trusting in your own righteousness, and not His. You must come to the end of your own strength, your need to be in control, and allow Him to completely restore you. If you confess, not in your mind, but in your heart, your sinfulness, and accept His forgiveness, then He will give you a new heart and a new spirit and you can experience victory over sin. This state of being restored to Him is what brings Him joy and that is the reason why the enemy wants us to continue to be ashamed. When you are naked and unashamed before Him, that joy will not only be His, but also yours.